Message From Aunt To Newborn

We found this post on another blog and we thought it was interesting to publish.

Many times we find someone who cavalierly pops up saying: "Am @ @ want to be your slave" without understand the meaning of the word level, on many occasions when Dom was instantly rejected these people because that just because I have not read one iota of BDSM and me is wasting time, and in my opinion is to lose time to love, the training process is slow, even starting from scratch and say we know many, an apprenticeship is a long process and much more becoming an / a submissive high level, and beyond a slave . IMHO to provide at least a Master that process at least have to be read.

levels which I enclose that are appropriate to distinguish between these stages:

1. The Masochist Non-Compliant or known as Kinky Sensualist:

is not within bondage, humiliation and abandonment of control, just like pain or sensuality spicy themselves in terms of masochism and masochistic direct pleasure (ie, wholly or mainly driven by their own bodily sensation rather than be used for sadistic enjoyment of his partner).

2. Non-Pseudo-Slave or Submissive:

not enter the game of "slavery", but he likes to play the role of "submission", for example: Games schoolteacher, infantilism, forced transvestism. Usually within the humiliation, but not servitude, even in the game. Dictates the scene greatly.

3. Game Slave or Pseudo-Compliant:

He likes playing at being a slave, likes to feel subservient and may even feel like it sometimes used to satisfy the sadism of his companion, may even serve to Parent, some senses, but only in the terms determined by the slave. Directs the scene greatly, often fetishistic (eg foot worshipers).

4. True submissive non-slave:

really gives up control (only temporarily and within agreed limits) but reaches its fulfillment in submission to others rather than serving or being used by the dominant.

usually turns to the suspense, vulnerability and assign responsibility. Does not direct the scene except in very general terms, but also seeks his own pleasure (rather than achieve the pleasure in the pleasure of the parent).

5. True Submissive Slave makes:

really gives up control (temporarily, only for scenes and no limits) and reaches its fulfillment in serving / being used by its parent but only for entertainment purposes, usually erotic.

may not like the pain. If you like, turn to pain indirectly, ie enjoys being an object of sadistic mate and get very few limits or requirements.

6. The uncommitted short-term but more than Semi-Slave Game:

really gives up control (usually without limit), wants to serve and be used by its parent, wants to offer practical services and non-erotic erotic but only when of humor. You can even act as a full-time slave say that for a few days, but can leave at any time (or after the agreed time) may or may not have long relationships with the love of another, but in the same way, the slave has the final word on when served.

7. The half-time but Slave True

has a commitment in a master / slave and is considered the property of Parent at any time. Want to obey and please his Master in all aspects of erotic life and not erotic. He spends most of his time to other commitments (eg work) but his love is the first in their free time.

8. The Slave Full-time:

Within

nothing but wide limits and requirements, the slave lives only for the pleasure of the dominant. The slave waits for change to be considered a prized possession, not unlike the traditional housewife, but in the world of S / M position tends to be fully consensual, especially in the case of male slave. Within the world of S / M the agreement of full-time slave is established in an explicit, conscious of the magnitude of this, with awareness of possible dangers, and the magnitude of the transfer of power and is normally assumed more carefully, with greater awareness of the dangers and clearer and more specific agreements than those adopted in traditional marriage.

A fantasy ideal which probably does not exist in real life (except in authoritarian religious cults and other situations where consent is induced by brainwashing of social or economic pressure and is not fully consensual) A few purists S / M will insist that you're really a slave unless you do everything you want love, without limits of any kind. I have met some people who claim to be slaves without limits, but I doubt they are.